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The 3am Hours

142 threads

Newborn nights, intrusive thoughts, the things you only feel when the house is asleep.

Postpartum, honestly

218 threads

Bodies, hormones, identity. The parts no one prepared us for.

Partners

96 threads

Mental load, resentment, repair. The conversations we're too tired to start at home.

Going back to work

74 threads

Childcare, guilt, ambition, the impossible math of it all.

Expat moms

51 threads

Mothering far from your own mother. Building a village from scratch.

Toddlers & big feelings

187 threads

Tantrums, biting, the day they say something that breaks your heart.

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  • The 3am Hours2h ago

    Does anyone else feel like a stranger to themselves at 4am?

    I'm six weeks in. I love her more than anything. But sometimes in the dark I don't recognize the woman holding her, and I don't know who to tell.

    anonymous · pregnant with #238 replies
  • Postpartum, honestly5h ago

    Nobody told me my hair would fall out in handfuls

    I'm finding it on the baby, in my food, wrapped around her tiny fingers. Is this normal? When does it stop?

    mira · 4 months pp56 replies
  • Partners1d ago

    How do I say 'I need you to see me' without it becoming a fight?

    He's a good dad. He's a tired husband. I'm a tired wife. I don't want to keep score, but I don't know how to stop.

    anonymous71 replies
  • Going back to work1d ago

    I cried in the bathroom on my first day back

    And then I cried again because I realized I'd missed working. Both things were true. Has anyone made peace with this?

    j. · returning to work44 replies
  • Expat moms2d ago

    Building a village from zero — what actually worked for you?

    We moved during pregnancy. My mother is 6,000 miles away. The loneliness has been the hardest part of all of it.

    anonymous · expat in Berlin29 replies
  • Toddlers & big feelings3d ago

    My 3-year-old said 'I don't like you' and I haven't recovered

    I know it doesn't mean what it sounds like. I know she's testing. But it landed somewhere old in me.

    anonymous62 replies

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